I’m 80 and I need to get my financial ducks in a row. I have $650,000 in investments, $250,000 in life insurance and about $150,000 equity in my home, plus good long-term-care insurance. All of this goes to my son. What’s the best way to protect him from heavy taxes when he inherits?
Octogenarian Mom
You’re probably worrying more than you ought to.
Under Internal Revenue Service rules, the lifetime estate-tax and gift-tax exclusion for 2026 is about $15 million (or $30 million for married couples). You can also give $19,000 per child per year (or $38,000 per year for married couples) without having to include the cash gift in his annual return to the IRS. So your son won’t be hit by a massive federal estate tax. Even if current law changes, your estate appears far below any likely federal taxable level.
The gift tax applies to the wealth transfer over your lifetime and is paid by the donor or estate; an estate tax is levied on the estate of the deceased. Starting in 2026, the lifetime exclusion per person will be roughly $15 million ($30 million for married couples). So far, so good.
Inheritances themselves are not considered taxable income, so your son will not owe income tax simply for receiving money, investments, or property from you — you’re not the only one to misunderstand how federal estate tax works. Potential capital gains from your investments and any increase in value of your home are the two main issues. However, if part of your investments are held in traditional retirement accounts such as IRAs or 401(k)s, your son would generally have to withdraw the money within 10 years, and those withdrawals would be taxed as ordinary income.
A handful of U.S. states impose an inheritance tax on certain inherited assets, though most offer exemptions or reduced rates for close relatives like children and spouses. State law matters more than federal law for estates your size, so confirming your state’s inheritance-tax rules is important. The good news: many states exempt children from inheritance tax.