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Finding yourself divorced at 51 after being a lifelong stay-at-home mom would make almost anyone feel overwhelmed. And that’s before having to figure out how to take financial control of your life.
That’s what happened to Trisha, who called into The Ramsey Show when her husband left after 22 years in 2022 (1), taking his $130,000 annual income with him but leaving behind the new car he’d bought her the month before, which came with a $596 monthly payment.
Now that she’s had a few years to sort herself out, she’s looking to find a way forward. In addition to having to support herself, she is scared about retirement. She told hosts Ramsey and Jade Warshaw, “I spent my whole life raising kids, homeschooling. I have basically no retirement.”
But Ramsey says she can get back on track, even if she starts saving late.
“Lots of 51-year-olds making $50,000 a year, $75,000 a year with your extra income coming in have become millionaires by the time they were 65 or 70. Lots of them,” Ramsey said.
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Despite Trisha’s fear for her future, Ramsey was at ease, saying, “Your math is going to be OK. You’re gonna get there.”
Trisha told the hosts she had refinanced her car loan to save her money, started a second job, and had $38,000 saved in a money market fund, along with $3,000 in another account.
With this fairly solid footing, Ramsey recommended his 7 Baby Steps program (2), which details his approach to building wealth.
These steps are:
1. Saving a $1,000 starter emergency fund
2. Paying off all debt (except the mortgage)
3. Saving three to six months of living expenses in an emergency fund
4. Investing 15% of your household income
5. Saving for college for your kids
6. Paying off your home early
7. Building wealth and giving
Ramsey went through the steps with Trisha, advising her to first pay off the remaining balance on the car, which was around $25,000.